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Danman I’ve heard about hypnosis I might give this a try see if it helps, got nothing to loose, thank you for your advice xx
Thank you all for the advice and kind words it really does mean a lot! I’m sorry to hear about your son it’s so easy to get on the road to destruction by so hard to get off but it is possible for everyone to do if they really want to! I wish you and you son all the best! You’ve got to give a bit of tough love now and again, how long has been an addict? Is he wanting to get clean? X
Danman, so sorry I didn’t realise you had replied to my message! Thank you, you’ve given me some really good advice there, I will let you know how he gets on and ask you any questions I’m unsure about hun! As of yet he’s still using, not as much it’s every couple days instead of everyday but this is still a lot, I can see he really wants to stop but Its got a grip of him, all I can do is stand by him and help as much as I can xx
Hi Rainbows, thank you for that message and so sorry to hear what you’ve been put through and still dealing with! You’ve done the rite thing thou for you Andy your baby you get to point where you can tell if it’s going to get any better or wether your just doing loops! It didn’t matter how many I spoke to my other half he would just tell me what I wanted to hear and carry on as of me and my feeling don’t matter!
I lost the baby hun he left me to go to hospital by myself while he spent the day and night with his ex! I didn’t know at the time, there’s just no need for any of it!
I hope your doing ok and managing to get back on your feet! Love is a funny old thing crazy what i makes you do xx
Georgia26 Sounds like you have definitely had your fair share of shit going on with this stuff! Which is why I’m taking your advice.
Iv been close to walking away a lot iv also recently found out that he was sleeping with his ex for a year and a half and I feel soooo stupid for sticking around I think the only reason I have is because 1. Obviously I love him 2. He lost his mam not long ago 3. I really want him to get better but honestly I don’t know if he is.
I’m giving him one last chance to try and prove he can get better he seems adamant at the moment he hasn’t been ha any for just over 3 days now so I suppose it’s just a wait and see situation.
Thank you so much for the advice thou because you have given me insight from both sides so I know what to do if this doesn’t get any better! And I’m glad your other half is doing all he can to get better hun! Honestly thank you so much for getting back in touch with me your messages have helped me massively! Xxx
I didn’t mean glad you have had to go through that hun sorry my phones not working properly seen a few mistakes in my reply haha x
Georgia26 Thank you very much for you straight to the point honest reply! That’s what I need and you’ve given me some great advice thank you.
I’m going to sit down with tomorrow and a proper talk about everything and se did he is genuinely serious about wanting to quit and if he can. I’m glad your mums other half is on the mend hun. Thank you again x
Yeah I’m 25 this has been going on for three years it’s mice to get this advice off someone who unfortunately been through similar circumstances at the same age! I’m glad
Hey, I could really do with some advice.
Long storey short my boyfriend has been addicted to cocaine for 3yr now and uses it everyday, his body has become dependant on the drug. I don’t use this drug at all as it doesn’t agree with me so it’s having a huge strain on our relationship, we don’t sleep in the same bed because he’s up all night, we are lucky if we have sex once or twice a month he has chosen to sneak off and watch porn nearly every night and I can’t help but frustrated by this all. I don’t have a go at him I just want to help him.
He got worse when he started selling the stuff because he would make his money back and sniff all the profits which means he has a constant flow of the stuff without having to pay it.
He’s admitted to having a problem and had his last hit at 12pm and had literally slept since then it’s now 3:20am I know it’s early but I can’t sleep at the norm as I’m currently tapering off codeine tablets and just dropped to 4 a day so my sleeping hasn’t been good for a few weeks.
I’m just worried about him and I don’t know how to help I know when he wakes up he’s going to want to get some and make excuses for it.
How does this drug actually effect the body and what damage can it do from using pretty much every day for the past 3yr? It’s starting to feel normal that he does it it’s that much of a problem please help x