Thank you for your reply. I don’t think I even realised he is an addict but it makes a lot of sense. He’s always blaming others, stress, me, his job. He lashes out and is very hurtful to anyone who says anything to him about his lifestyle, mainly me and his family, it’s extremely hurtful. I’ve asked him to leave, even for a while but he refuses. This weekend he left remnants of cocaine around the house twice in reach of our baby. I’m distraught but he is just acting like nothing happened and is being very spiteful towards me because I’m upset. There’s no way he’s ready to accept he has a problem. Because he only does coke when he goes out a few times a month he seems to think it’s ok but like I said it’s destroying our family. I just don’t know what the next step is? I have the support of his family who are equally upset but they don’t live nearby. He won’t admit there is a problem and I feel trapped.
