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Hi there thank u for ur read it’s very difficult to prove there still using if I have not actually seen but as I said he did I believe stop

For a while but all the time I’ve been with him it’s always he’s had depression anxiety so mental health probs he’s had counciling from our friend who is 25 years qualified that was a couple of years ago for various past problems not associated to drugs but I’m sure that was brought up cos I do believe he use to use as a block out the hurt of situations etc however since the help I would of said myself he would of been much happier within himself and not have such negatives but I feel he seems to want to make a small issue bigger totally over thinking it and it ends up becoming draining which I feel isant a balanced mind and I haven’t really seen much improvement of late I got made redundant this weekend we knew last year it would be the case and my son came to stay cos he fell out with he’s friend but what with my job and that I just didn’t feel the support at all and over 9 years I have given him so much myself I found out today from our friends we went to for the dinner party that the hubby did take Coke along with my partner at there house but not the girl yet yesterday when he came to me for a chat he lied told me both had so when I asked her she told me she had not so I now have seen he sat in our home and just lied to my face I just think is this what u do when u are meant to love someone not in my eyes it sant

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Yes I act agree cos it was me saying I can’t be with someone on coke so he did stop for a while but as I said he then went behind my back in sept so that was more important than us esp as we had talked bout it I ask him for an explanation last night cos he has been messaging me but really he couldn’t give me one sad really

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I think deep

Down he never wanted to

Stop

Using the drug even if it was sociable nights out

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Thank you for ur reply I appreciate it sadly he says since the sept over our friends he has not used anything and he was quite annoyed I had even thought he had but I think he’s personality hasent really got much better despite seeing our friend who is a qualified councillor or 25 yrs and yes I agree defo been underlying probs in the past but I just think there is not anything that’s a major issue anymore and yet he seems to just keep finding things to be draining bout if he’s not going to admit it as he didn’t when we went out in sept I don’t think he thinks there’s a problem but we have broken up so

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