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He needs to weigh up the options. If he doesn’t get clean and his ex finds out he’s using then that’ll probably cause more issues with custody than a medical record showing he’s getting help. I’d guess only help obtained through the nhs would show on his medical record? Have you asked any charities/support groups? Good luck
Gosh I could’ve written this post about my own life. I don’t know whether to go or stay. Wish leaving, or having separate space was easier. I don’t know what I’m staying for. What did you decide to do?
I read your post and thought that’s my life. Difference is im 6/7 years into the relationship with kids. Like you describe, it’s like living with two people, the ‘overly nice one’ you want all the time and the ‘nothing matters but what I want’ version which puts you last. It will only change when he wants it to and he doesn’t sound ready. Five months in, you should really think is this what I want long term as he could decide to get clean tomorrow, or you could be living this exact same life 6/7/8 years down the line and would you want that? Good luck x