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Thankyou for your reply. It would be interesting to find out more, does using it say once a week get you hooked, only my husband has been saying he can stop if i wants, the told GP thats not the issue he can stop……
I think he has a paranoyer disorder, his behaviour and thinking isnt rational..
Wow, you have done amazing you should be so proud of urself. And to train to help others, we’ll done.
Interesting Dot, how often did you take it? was it daily or weekends??
How did you stop?
Hi, just registered here after reading your story.
I’m in a similar situation. Been with my husband over 5 years married 2. Months after getting married there were issues, few occasions we were out he was a bit obsessive & paranoid. The months that followed he would question if things had moved in the house, like cushions or a chair, anything you wudnt think twice about, i also suspect he would plant things to see if they moved. He always had 3 or 4 cans every evening, and much more Frid to Sun. He didnt like it if i was on my mobile/ FB or messaging friends or family. We had a few short separations it was around this time I found out he was using cocaine. I felt i didnt know the person i had married. Towards the end of last year we split up for 3 months. He stayed with a mate then rented a house. We tried again thinking living apart would be better. At this point he was truthful, he told me he would often forget something in the car thats were the exchange took place most times. Fridays or Saturdays. He told me he had done alot more prior to moving in the rented house. Over coming months I got him to speak to his GP about what I thought was a paranoyer disorder and explain whats been going on. GP said questionning things moving was part of daily life… He was told to contact MIND.
He spent 3 weeks at my house recently, he didnt want to go home, then after work one night I knew he had had something, he admitted it. Later he showed me a dirty video (wasn’t even a sexy video, it was disgusting) he’d been sent off one of the lads and said that’s ur favourite song.. And….. It went on from there he believed it was me & my house. I’ve had a lot of abuse on text and voicemails, he has been accussing me of going with his mates, he is seeing when there online and saying we are messaging! I went out for a couple of hours at weekend and saw him after thinking he might have come to his senses & was sorry, but the following day, I’m cheating and he didn’t believe I’d been in the pub he picked me up from that evening, I just went there and asked my Auntie to cover my story according to him. Today I found out he had messaged the landlady trying to get cctv of me there! I think he was clingy and freightend of losing me anyway, but the cocaine and beer has exaberated the situation.
I too am struggling to understand the cocaine use, was he reliant if it was just a friday or saturday to begin with? I’m certain it’s more the past 2 weeks going off the accusations and abuse?
Sorry if I’ve gone on a bit!