Hi all and thanks for all the replies. They are all much appreciated.
Bit of an update : he said he will do anything to save us so he’s already seen a doctor, has started a course of tablets and has been referred to a psychotherapist.
Baby steps I know and time will tell but this is effort and action in my eyes so we are dating once a week to see how things go as he progresses medically.
I know things could go horribly wrong so I am still very very wary
