[sunflower124]

Thank you for taking the time to comment @lindyloo. Sorry to hear about your son as well – it’s just so hard because you know they are a good person and have so much more to them than the addiction but they have to want to help themselves. I think they do mean it in the moment too, and want to change as who wants to be controlled by a drug and potentially lose their family? I’m trying to be understanding but with a young daughter I won’t stick around forever, it’s not fair on her. I hope things improve for you and your son also x

[sunflower124]

Hi – I just wanted to comment as reading these is so familiar to me. I’m in the same situation – partner who says he’s going to stop and then relapses, I don’t think he really accepts he has a problem yet. He thinks it’s my problem and I’m the one with the issues… but it’s the lies that are the worst. I am questioning if it is my fault/my issues even though I know deep down it’s not. We have a baby also – he’s a great dad most of the time but I can’t deal with the relapses and mostly the lies and deceptive behaviour!!

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