Hi son has had a hidden cocaine problem for about 5 years now he is 26. He has tried in the last six months to get clean. We thought he had a little wobble but I notice his behaviour is getting nastier again to me. He manages to manipulate my husband against me when I challenge him..I found cocaine on his keyboard the other day and through his manipulation he has managed to persuade his father it is residue from a long time ago and that I am trying to isolate him from the family. He then gets inside my husband’s head saying I am trying to isolate my husband from everybody ( I am not!) And that we should divorce. This is a pattern of behaviour that has gone on for years. My son’s cocaine problem then descends into me being bullied by son and my husband! It is is the most bewildering, awful thing! Anybody else had this? Not sure I can put up with this anymore. Many thanks