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Thank you for this. The drug testing kits sound like a good option and I’m definitely going to get him to do the 12 steps also. If I’m going to support his through this after all the pain he’s caused me he’s going to have to put he effort in too and like you say, want to do it. Thank you for all of your advice, it’s really useful hearing it from someone who’s actually been there. It sounds like you are doing everything you possibly can to stay off it. Keep going. I’m not religious but I too prayed the other night. Just incase. I’ll keep you in my thoughts too. I’m so glad I came onto this site this morning. Although it feels all the more real now, I can fee a bit hopeful too. Thank you

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Thanks for that. Yes I think he needs to tell his family. At least one other person who cares anyway. I can’t do this on my own. Maybe they will convince him to get help. I’m glad to hear your husband is getting better. It gives me hope that mine can too. I think I’m in shock also. It’s just awful for us who are having to pick up the pieces x

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Your post gives me hope. Thank you x

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