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I meant to say taking things day by day not cooking
So sorry to hear this Lizzie
how are you and your daughter doing now ? I hope you are cooking day by day ?
also how is your partner doing in rehab ?I asked my husband to leave 10 weeks ago and He is the same and getting worse we have 3 children and together 20 years he said we are over and is continuing to take drugs I have asked him to get help and I hope he does it’s heart breaking
I hope you can get something to help the anxiety I had to the first few weeks I hope your hubby can get better and your children won’t remember this
take care and let me know how you are x
I have been reading all of the posts above and I wish I could have my husband back the man I married we have been together 20 years and have 3 amazing children he is gripped by drugs , smoking green and cocaine and I don’t know if there is anything else .
I found him in a girls flat 5 weeks ago who does the same , he behaves like a complete narcissist and never used to be like this . I thought he had cancer or was mentally unwell but now I know it’s the drugs I would do anything to help him too and love him so so much
Please can anyone help me I am in despair and just can’t see what else I can do to help him
He is now at his mothers and stays there some nights and weekends I don’t know , he hasn’t seen his children for 5 weeks and hardly gives us money , I know I will need to divorce him if he doesn’t change or see the light
He stopped drinking 18 years ago so I know he can do it but since his father died and since the lock down this has all gotten worse .
James I wish I could get you to speak to him but all I can do is hope and pray he gets better . Our children are 13,16 and 19 and they need him
Any advice would be amazing and sorry I am no help to anyone just now x
Hi there thanks so much and I totally feel your pain I will message back later on a full reply I am struggling big time and grieving for him x message back in couple of hours
This is exactly how our marriage sounds too 20 years and 3 children and he doesn’t seem to care he has huge
Debts and was lying the past few years at least I just wish he could take some of Kulsters advice too
I hope you are ok and hope things improve for you
I am separated from him for only 4 weeks and he hasn’t contacted our children as yet they are all teenagers x
Hi Bella pop I have been going through the same
In fact our lives sound very similar
Although 4 weeks ago I found my husband in a flat he
Should not have been in and he owes money too
That day I had enough and put him out and now he is at his mothers and our 3 children don’t want to see him
All I want him to do is say he will get clean and I would help him all I can but so far he hasn’t and does the same as your husband blames it all on me
I really feel for you it is a worry choosing to separate isn’t it
As you don’t know if your hubby will get worse or not
It’s like living with a Jekyll and Hyde
Please keep in touch
Just now I am devastated and miss my husband terribly despite how he was behaving
It’s only the last couple of years since his father died he changed and especially the last year
The drug affects every part of their being
Sorry if I not been much help but I really feel for you
I been crying all day and night just praying my husband gets better and we get our family back together he was our rock and I want to help him
Take care xxx
Hi there
I feel your pain and i know my husband is going through the same just now but won’t admit
I would speak to your GP initially for help and see if there are any local addiction charities or teams
If not CA or NA do the twelve step programme and you will get great support
Well done on posting and in fact you are amazing don’t let anyone tell you any different the fact you have admitted it and asked for help is the best first step
Take one day at a time and try an online meeting with CA tonight xx
Best wishes to you