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themidgetgemParticipant
Hi lovely ,
I struggle with the lies the secrecy . I hate it when people say it’s not him it’s the drugs because he can make a choice and clearly chooses that over me . He sleeps all day too . There’s no conversation there’s no nothing , I’d leave but why should I leave my home because he chooses drugs over his family
I hope you get the answers you need
Take care xxx
themidgetgemParticipantI dont him money I just pay the bills and food and support the young adult kids we have . He gets carers for looking after his dad not that he does as he dosent leave the house . He won’t leave he just causes a scene . I’ve got to the point I just live my life and he exists . As long as my kids are okay I really don’t care anymore what he does .
I’ve come to the strength that he’s the weak one he’s the addict not me and I am a strong independent woman with a good career and money .
Thank you for your support xxx
themidgetgemParticipantHe sleeps all day he lies , he hasn’t cheated that I know of but he nearly slept with our neighbour but she changed her mind last minute . I’ve found him on dating sites and found messages on his phone . He says he’s single so technically he can do what he wants . I know he takes it everyday he’s always on his phone he lies. I just want him to leave the family home and sort himself out xx
themidgetgemParticipantIt’s awful isn’t it my husband will not admit he’s an addict yet takes cocaine all night long and sleeps all day . He says he’s not my husband and can do what he wants . I find him on dating sites sex sites and messaging other women .
I’m working two jobs because he won’t work yet he tells me to get out the house by next week . I’m depressed I’m lonely and I’ve had enough . My self esteem is in my boots I feel humiliated that everyone around knows he’s messaging all these girls and him telling everyone he’s single . It’s awful and I genuinely have thought of ending my life because I just want it all to stop
themidgetgemParticipantIt’s awful isn’t it my husband will not admit he’s an addict yet takes cocaine all night long and sleeps all day . He says he’s not my husband and can do what he wants . I find him on dating sites sex sites and messaging other women .
I’m working two jobs because he won’t work yet he tells me to get out the house by next week . I’m depressed I’m lonely and I’ve had enough . My self esteem is in my boots I feel humiliated that everyone around knows he’s messaging all these girls and him telling everyone he’s single . It’s awful and I genuinely have thought of ending my life because I just want it all to stop
themidgetgemParticipantTo be honest he uses every day , so when on a comedown he’s even worse . He was the nicest man in the world before drugs
themidgetgemParticipantYes just relaxing I’ve even blocked him so he can’t give me abuse whilst I’m away xx
themidgetgemParticipantI’ve gone away for the night to wales in a hot tub with my kids and dog having a lovely time ????enjoy your days ladies xx
themidgetgemParticipantHorrid aren’t they , mine this morning is lay on sofa still awake as this is what he does awake all night sleeps all day . Hasn’t worked since 2018 . And he thinks he can run the house when i go absolute waste of oxygen . Makes me sick
themidgetgemParticipantI know he’s awful to me yet thinks he’s this ideal man ????
I’m going away for the night with the kids turning my phone off so I get no abuse
themidgetgemParticipantI know he’s awful to me yet thinks he’s this ideal man ????
I’m going away for the night with the kids turning my phone off so I get no abuse
themidgetgemParticipantHe’s awful telling me be out the house by next week he’s a drug addict whom cheats on me all the time
themidgetgemParticipantI need help he’s awful ????????????telling me get out the house with my kids saying he’s going to get me sacked I’m at the lowest of the low I cannot cope with his behaviour
themidgetgemParticipantHow did you get clean from cocaine ? He’s literally making my life hell he almost makes me feel suicidal, like life would just be easier if I was gone
themidgetgemParticipantHow did you get clean from cocaine ? He’s literally making my life hell he almost makes me feel suicidal, like life would just be easier if I was gone .
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