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I understand how you feel. Me and my husband will be married 3 years this year. He used drug for about 10yrs. He was sober for 1 1/2 yrs and relasped last night. It is a struggle and your users will have to want to change on they own. I told my husband that this is the last time it will happen or I will pack up the kids an leave. You have to be firm. And he knows when I mean business. I am so disappointed that he did it. But I guess he is trying. He never had someone there for him. Anyway, what I am trying to say is no matter what the drug the user has to want to change. Pray for your family. Praying has helped me through a bumpy road of recovery. In all this time I only lost $400. Better than before. BUT he is going to give his checks up on payday. I monitor the money when he slips. Set rules and stick to them no matter what.