[travalwyn22]

Thank you so much, getting constant messages saying he’ll do it this time, nothing  I haven’t  heard for years, sad thing is admits it makes him unhappy and he continues to get worse, looking forward to spending time with my girls this weekend,  don’t know why the outcome Will be but apart from the feelings of guilt I’m feeling good with this decision, thank you all

[travalwyn22]

Today I have just told my partner of 9 years to leave, he has nowhere else to go and is having to sleep in his van, have I done the right thing, I’m shaking with guilt and have to stop myself from telling him to come back, I believe I have enabled him for a long time, lying for  him and covering up his behaviour, my kids dont live at home but I’m constantly making excuses for his behaviour, am I wrong to want peace and quiet? I want to spend more time with my girls and one day grandchildren, I love him but how can I get over this guilt?

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