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    Udhfrz5668
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    Hey you,

    it sounds truly awful! I am so sorry you have to go through this!

    How was it at the beginning of the relationship? Wonderful? 100 %? Or did you already always had it at the back of your mind? Did you talked openly and often about his addiction or was it more like a taboo topic? Is it more the alcohol, or the cocaine or just both?

    Sending you strength!

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    Udhfrz5668
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    Dear SaoirseJS,

    thank you so much for commenting on my post. Not sure why it was posted with that gibberish at the start.

    It is just SO strange! Would have never thought that happening. Thank you for your kind words. They did helped me.

    He never cheated on girlfriends in the past (before his addiction), I do believe him there. And he was the one who told me and he was always honest about any relapse. He owned up to it whole heartedly. Which gives me a bit of hope for some future (maybe in a year?). But it depends what the drug will still do to him in the meantime….

    When I read the stories here from other partner of cocaine addicts, I dont think it will be a good idea to get back together. Lots of heartache.

    How was it with you? Did he seem honest to you as well?

    Thank you soooo much for your kind reply!!!!

    I never dealt with addiction before this. Read all about it, but reading and living are entirely different things.

     

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