Thanks Tory, I love him so much but can’t do this anymore. I don’t think the penny’s dropped for him yet how serious I am. Yes I’m make sure all bills are paid. He doesn’t go AWOL but I work nights so he knows I’ll not be home to catch him out. Again he’s promising he’s not got a problem and he’ll stop. But when we’re in our 50’s 60’s. This has went in for 20 years he needs to grow up he’s a grown man. I get where your coming from wanting to break lose but it’s the fear of breaking up our marriage and breaking kids hearts x
