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Thank you so kind xxx

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Aw thank you so kind, yes I think keeping busy helps too , try to take care of you too so can feel good yourself , here to talk if you feeling down , helps me too.

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Hi , my partners in rehab getting help and I’m feeling the same happy he’s doing it because we’ve all wanted it for so long , but also have these scared emotional feelings that feel pretty selfish at times , I have found reading on here an there’s some support groups on Facebook they do help in knowing your feelings are pretty normal I thought I was going crazy till I realised it’s common for friends and families of addicts to have all kinds of emotions , suppose it’s natural really after sticking by an addict for a long time.

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Hi thanks for reply , the rational side of my mind totally knows this , an I’m trying dieting exercising regularly self care but I’ve still got this awful resentment that I feel sooo selfish for having, the support and help he is getting is amazing and it’s so positive an I’m beaming with pride he’s doing it, but it just feels like he’s created this whirlwind of destruction then gone to heal himself an I’m just here like wtf was that and the only person I would speak about this with is him but I can’t put that on him , it’s such a strange string of emotions attached with the whole experience.

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Hi, I can totally relate to this used to live like this myself , my partner had to get his own place in the end which improved everything apart from his drinking ( which he’s now getting help for) we’re still a couple but it improved my mental state because I wasn’t waiting round for him to change as much and for him think the fact he was losing everything maybe scared him to getting the help he needed but I know that no one can change their mindset till their ready but you’ve also got to to take care of yourself and your well being xxx

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