Hi Claire,
I think you’ve done practically all you can hunni, my mum died from psoriasis of the liver and pancreatitis by then it was to late for her to stop (she was terminally ill also) they had to out her into a coma as the pain was to much. I don’t drink at all cant stand it, I watched it destroy my twin sister but it took for her to loose her daughter to foster care and her son was adopted because he was only 2yrs old. I know it can sound selfish but it’s not.
When is it going to be a happy time for you? I can read between lines in your post and you sound really sad , cant you go somewhere to stay the weekend see how he manages on his own and I know you will worry but it sounds like a 1 sided relationship at the moment and its SELFISHNESS that we know they cant help it they are ill, but physically and mentally its crushing you, I’m sorry if I sound harsh but drinkers even drug addicts don’t think of anyone else or who they are hurting. I really hope that things go good for you. Your young and shouldn’t have to have all this on you, I know it’s easy to say “Leave Him” but you need to have a little break if you can. I’m here anytime you need a chat sweetheart and I truly hope that your partner gets some help. Take care hunni. Wendie x