westy081

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    I’m so lucky and fortunate I work full time an can afford the mortgage , bills etc on my own ! Some of these stories would break ur heart xx

    westy081
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    It’s terrible what we’re all going through ! I was with my partner 30 years an just found out 2 weeks before Xmas he was having an affair ( he worked away) he’s on crack cocaine bad he’s a shell of himself an yes he’s still with her , spent Xmas an all with her ! It’s like me an r grown up kids an 5 grandkids never existed in his life ! He’s now lost his job I just can’t believe or get my head round this has happened, never in a million years did I think he could do any of this on us ????

    westy081
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    It’s terrible what we’re all going through ! I was with my partner 30 years an just found out 2 weeks before Xmas he was having an affair ( he worked away) he’s on crack cocaine bad he’s a shell of himself an yes he’s still with her , spent Xmas an all with her ! It’s like me an r grown up kids an 5 grandkids never existed in his life ! He’s now lost his job I just can’t believe or get my head round this has happened, never in a million years did I think he could do any of this on us ????

    in reply to: How to be yourself again when your Partners’s an addict #27725
    westy081
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    Ur stories r so helpful an making us understand it all better ! Thanku xx

    in reply to: Hold my hand. Cocaine boyfriend #27490
    westy081
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    Hey hope ur ok my partner of 30 years is an addict an was cheating on me with an escort girl for 5 months , he’s still with her so I’m guessing she’s taking Coke as well , it’s like we never existed in his life he has no contact with any of us , it’s so hard especially when u love someone so much but drugs r coming first !

    in reply to: My husband and cocaine #27196
    westy081
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    This is like a mirror image of my life , no contact no closure just left to b with an escort girl who uses as well an I heard all they do is fight an he’s abusive to her ! He’s through away 30 years for drugs x

    in reply to: My husband and cocaine #27194
    westy081
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    Hey I’m going through the same thing , with my partner 30 years we have 2 grown up daughters an 5 grandkids, I new he used Coke occasionally but he works away in Manchester an 2 weeks before xmas I found out he’s been having an affair with an escort girl ( he’s still with her spent xmas with her and not even so much as a text or phone call on xmas day ! He’s up to his eyes on drugs and drink with this girl , I found out he met her when he was working in Nottingham an when that job finished she moved up to Manchester with him into digs with 5 other work fellas ! He never answered my texts calls nothing just said he’s on crack cocaine now , I’m literally at my wits end can not believe he’s done this on r family ! Xx

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