Hi I’m new to this forum. Our 30 year old son is an drug addict, it’s got so bad now. My hubby can’t mentally cope anymore with him. He was close to him and has unintentionally been enabling him. I could see what he was doing but if I commented it ended in big rows. We are a strong middle aged couple with 35 years marriage. One son died 6 years ago today of drug overdose, his brother. He was just 23. See adopted the two of them aged 2 and 3. We are a hard working family and the boys were brought up well went off the rails at 13 and 14. Life has been, and still us hell. We have tried for many years to support him but he just used and abuses us. What can we do? I do worried about my hubby, our sone persecutes himm daily for money. Any advice gratefully received.