I wish I could advise you I really do. But I’m in the same predicament, and have been for some years now. My son is addicted to coke and won’t get any help. Just goes from one disaster to another. He served 3 yrs for covering for someone and today has put himself up for recall back to prison. It breaks my heart everytime but he just won’t learn and turn his back on it. He’s 32 now and I’m just praying this time he’ll come through it xxx