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Small steps for now and use any bad feelings as motivation , it’s all easier said than done we know that but dig deep you are on the best path. Communication is the most important thing, my partner just shuts me out because he knows I’m the one who will try and stop him, but I’m not built for that kind of treatment I’ve been there for him and always said I have faith in his recovery but it seems to mean nothing to him. Im being trampled on atm and it’s breaking my heart. He has now blocked me so I can’t have any contact. It’s so unfair
I’ve isolated myself from everyone all the people trying to protect me as i have always had this notion he can do it I have faith in him but how often can we go through this ? Days of turmoil for him to then no doubt tell me it’s over. Lots of love to you also talking about it helps a little we know times the best thing in the world x
Exactly the same as me. We’ve been together none stop for months as we don’t generally live together and then boom he has gone I can’t cope with it, I’m not built that way it’s killing me, he has let me know he is ok and that is all it’s like our relationship has meant nothing to him. I wish I could take a step back I’ve become so in tune with him.
Exactly the same as me. We’ve been together none stop for months as we don’t generally live together and then boom he has gone I can’t cope with it, I’m not built that way it’s killing me, he has let me know he is ok and that is all it’s like our relationship has meant nothing to him. I wish I could take a step back I’ve become so in tune with him.
Take it a day at time even an hour at a time if needs be it’s getting the first week or 2 out the way the best you can. This is the result of a Coke binge it’s heartbreaking
You’ve both done the best thing by reaching out … I’m the partner of an addict and I always try and see things thru his eyes currently very difficult since he has walked out on me. You guys just need to know you have it in you to take control, it’s not easy at all and gonna take all your strength but it’s gonna be worth it in the longer term. Got to use these feelings as motivation.
It’s the hardest thing to go through this when you love someone, I’m to in a similar situation whereby the love I have for him seems to be deeper than the respect I have for myself. When it’s good it’s brilliant but as soon as the opportunity to get coke is there he gets it, I keep him close as I don’t want him off with idiots where he’s gone for days on end. But this time his psychosis was so bad as he hammered a load in a short time and drank a lot he was out of it and he’s left after accusing me of all sorts and said we are done. He has even took my phone. Now I sit here waiting for him to get in touch not sure when I became such a mug.