Hi Riverview
I hope things have improved over the last few days. Would it be possible for you to speak to your son? Get someone to help shoulder some of the burden with you? It might also help for you to speak to a support group like AlAnon to know that you are not alone. I have felt the same desperation and it’s so difficult – you need some support and maybe practical tips for how to deal with your daughter day to day. That’s what I’m looking for too. I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you.