Hi
I am new to the site but we have spoken over the last week and I have read through your posts.
I am sorry this has happened! Why oh why do they do this. He was in a perfect position away from temptation but I can tell you they will get what they want anywhere, they JUST know who to ask it’s inbuilt in them!
You are doing the right thing, may not seem like it at the moment but just like me you have done everything you possibly could but it’s like banging your head against a brick wall and unless they truly want to stop there is nothing we can do.
I dint have children and I am struggling so god only knows how you feel.
Be strong and just know none of it’s your fault!
I am still in the stage of thinking it’s my fault but that will change in time, we are good at giving advice to others but not taking my own.
Not sure how feasible it is to have no contact because if the children but you could go through a family member for contact access and give yourself some time out from him.
Sending hugs.xx