Hi had to re register as forgot to save password .
He is 34 adamant he wants to stop but won’t listen to professionals .
Others who have had less physical damage tell him he can just stop , sadly his damage means he needs medical help to stop as the pain is too great so he keeps lapsing .
And all the time the damage increases , it’s heartbreaking at times but I will support him of course , I am seriously struggling emotionally though.