Hi
Same happened to me as all your stories, that drug really is the devil!
I will be divorced in 3 weeks, we were together 13 and married 3.
Funny thing is I had no idea until he could not hide it anymore, we had a great life god jobs etc.
I have since found out he did it all along and about 2.5 years ago that’s when it took hold properly.
Fast forward and what I have found out;
Thousands gone
Lost jobs
Not coming home
Escorts
The lies
The deceit
The man I loved changing into a monster
Left in December was with a 20 year old 2 weeks later (he 42) and asking her to marry him????
Now with some old one with 2 kids
The list goes on.
I was lucky I didn’t have kids, I separated all finances so his debt is NOT my debt.
I hate to say it but there are not many success stories, for your own life I would say leave!!
I lost over 3 stone, hair fell out and I thought I could never cope without him as I was so co-dependent.
But guess what, 6 hard difficult months later I feel so much better.
I wake up and go to sleep with no stress, my life is my own, that horrible feeling in the pit of my stomach has gone, it’s wonderful.
There is light at the end of the tunnel but you have to make the decision to detach and leave or if you don’t it will carry on and on and on.
I wish everyone well.xx