This might be hard to hear, but it sounds like you need to end your relationship with him. You have given him so many chances. He obviously has underlying issues that are not being addressed, and he obviously isn’t able to sort it out. You and your kids will keep suffering, If he’s anything like a good parent, he will continue to maintain a relationship with your children, but you should not be suffering in order to play happy families for the sake of your children. You deserve to be happy, I’m sure this isn’t what you signed up for!
