your son has done well to stay clean for 7 weeks and i can understand why you’d be scared for him to leave. Is he engaging with any drug services to help him?
My son had also only been back home since during lockdown hes also been in either shared house or flat with his gf but back here he just wasnt adhering to my boundaries especially with my younger one in the house so we have kicked him out a few times for that reason. And when he has been drug free his temperment is so volatile if anything that has been as much as the issue as the drugs. I spoke to him today and his voice sounded like he was on something so sad as i feel me kicking him out hasnt helped but equally we had just no choice.
I find it so frustrating that he just cant see what hes doing to himself and those around him.
ive saught out so many places and options for help for him but he wont engage and obviously as hes an adult so that means my hands are tied.
also his druggie girlfriend makes him worse they have such a toxic dependence on one another.
its funny as so far ive encountered anyone who knows of a girl with drug problems does seem to be a more male thing or am i wrong?