Maybe it’s because boys/men don’t talk about their feelings and girls are more open .
I too have sourced help for my son , he went once To a clinic before lockdown and refuses to call them /go back for help.
His moods swings are so bad he’s Angry 99% of the time.
Homeless – living somewhere but he won’t tell me . Unemployed.
I can’t have him back as he Is toxic , rude, unmannered.
And I can’t have drugs anywhere near my home .
He’s 32 years of age so no longer a child.
My ‘child’ died 15 years ago and all that’s left is this shell, and his voice. His whole personality is disagreeable.