Am I horrible ! I’m teaching my son a lesson , he’s not got a proper place to live , he lost his job through drink and drugs and couldn’t pay for his flat , he had 2 lodgers who paid him rent that he spent . There’s a big bill coming for this flat as I’m guarantor. Probably over £2000. I also lent him £2500 just before he lost his job and before I knew he was a coke addict and alcoholic.
He didn’t want to pay for his flat and didn’t want the 2 others homeless . Well it’s him that’s homeless now as they have moved on.
I agreed to my sons clothes being stored at my house but he comes round most days and eats all the food . I also found a stash of empty beer bottles. I have told him that I don’t want him drinking in the house and he said ‘would you prefer me to drink in the park’ I said YES I would if you want to drink alcohol.
He is very rude , arrogant and we don’t get on , he can’t come back ‘home’ I am a childminder and he wouldn’t pass ofsted rules. I am not working until September .Anyway everyday he comes back has a shower try’s to stay as long as possible , he has someone to sleep but can’t leave his things there. He has a girlfriend but won’t even confirm it .
Today he came earlier and it’s so ungrateful and rude , I asked him about the telly programme and he just muttered and turned it up.
He has to leave when I leave ( heis known to steal my lovely watch went missing less than 2 weeks ago) and I’m now back home but iv parked the car on another road and I’m hiding up in my bedroom so he can’t see me . It’s raining – I feel bad but many times I went round to his flat when he had it and he wouldn’t answer the door to me and told me to f—-off and called me a bitch.
I want some peace. I want him to feel like I felt .
I WANT HIM TO FEEL , TO WAKE UP.