Yes we changed the locks he doesn’t have a key.
As for his clothes , I prefer him to be clean and shaven and most times he is , he is ‘courting’ a young girl although he has told us nothing , so I want him to be clean .
Him having a girlfriend ( he’s not had a proper girlfriend for over 6 years and he’s 32 ) is an answer to my prayers.
I just need him to stop and think and be grateful and not expect .
He’s very ungrateful , has no empathy , he is using us .