My son is sofa surfing , he had a chance with the council they agreed he was homeless and gave him 60 days to find a room that they would pay the deposit on and the 1st months rent.
We refuse to pay as we paid the deposit on his previous flat and there’s about £2000 worth of unpaid rent on it Outstanding and we are guarantors. Anyway he messed it up waited till the last 2 weeks then found a property that didn’t accept the unemployed , he did this twice now he has lost this chance . So he’s been sofa surfing , but coming back mostly everyday to wash and eat.
Friday I tried to talk to him While sitting beside him on the settee and he turned the telly up ‘ .
I did speak to him and asked him to go back and get help from the drug clinic.
Sunday it kicked off again he came in from an all night party and went to bed ! He doesn’t live here. We wanted to go out and don’t trust him in the house , he has stolen before from us . I collected my mum and she came as mediator and I gave him an hour and got him out of bed. He left to go to her house to sleep , and neither of us have heard from him since Tuesday. He’s not getting any messages , his phones probably dead. Today I am requesting anti depressants from the doctor.
My dentist actual says I’m grinding my teeth in my sleep ( when I do sleep up at 430 today ).
I can’t have my son living with us , he’s still doing drugs.