I have accused my son of stealing £5 from my purse , I knew I had two and then that evening (saturday) when I went to pay for shopping I only had 1 , also a month ago my lovely watch went missing , although I didn’t accuse him then , I mentioned it with the fiver Saturday evening when I tracked him down at the pub.
He says he’s not a thief but ! When he lost his flat he moved in with my mum who’s 84 and My brother , who Is on a lot of tablets due to his diabeties . I checked my sons backpack when he came to collect new clothes and my brothers viagra was in there.
He has stolen in the past , I used to have to take my purse to bed with me.
So he has sent a text telling me not to speak to him again ‘ until he’s dead ! ‘.
I have decided not to Feel sorry for him , he alone has decided to take this path .
Lindy loo I do feel for you the truth is your son bought the drugs as he knew you would bail him out. Next month take his wages of him or get them paid into your bank account until he can be trusted , take his bank card of him . My sister in laws son had a gambling problem and she Did this to control his spending. Make it a condition of you bailing him out this last time. Xx