Thank you all ladies for your words if support. I can’t thank you enough, especially when I know you’re going through your own challenges.
Bump – I’m glad you met your son and it was fine for a bit, we know that he doesn’t mean to be aggressive, its the drugs that’s affecting their logic. It numbs their senses.
Jenny- sorry to hear that you suspect your son is stealing. Again, its the drugs, he’s not thinking straight, he’s been desensitised by them. You always have to sleep with one eye open, and looking over your shoulder all the time, don’t you?
I agree with you, by bailing him out every time, we’re enabling him. I’ll mention it to my hubby about taking his card or transferring his money. Unfortunately last time he bullied us into submission for it!
Debc – nice to hear from you too. I’m glad to hear your son is still drug free. Yes, they do see to find another outlet eg clothes. I think my son has ocd, whatever he does, it’s 100%. Can’t get counselling -doc says until he’s 6 months clean.
Again thank you all, I think we have a great support network here. Take care, big hugs to you all.
Lx