Jem, im sorry to hear about your mum. Don’t beat yourself up about it as you can’t physically be everywhere. I’m sure she’d understand. The best you can do is prioritise everyone’s needs – including your own.
I’m hope its nothing serious and she’ll be on the mend soon.
Bump- still thinking and praying that the situation gets better for you. You know that we’re all thinking of you here.
Take care
Lxx