Thanks for that jaynhissayy that’s helpful advice.
I didnt get to the full truth I’ve been piecing things together but have now had to report my son as missing. The housemates at his supported living place shocked me with how he had been behaving and the lack of support and said he died seems to have some psychosis. Noone has heard from him and about an hour ago I got a call from his phone but it had been found by a homeless person in london. I am sick with worry he has no phone or money and is acting in a very confused unstable way. Waiting for the police to get back to me.