Yes you must put yourself first ivy. I’m not surprised you have been pushed to that point.
You have done so amazingy well. Funny but I havnt looked at other threads I think I posted and just reply to what comes in my email so have got to know the ladies on this thread. So many of us out there.
Stay in touch on here. It was nice to hear from you even I’d we are in a not great place with our lived ones addictions