Hi Bump, good to hear from you. I gathered by the silence that most of our lads are doing as well as can be expected.
Bump I’m glad that things are better for your son. It sounds like the situation is better than it has been in the past.
The anger and aggressive behaviour comes with the territory I guess. It always happened to me too when I didn’t give into my son’s constant needs and wants.
Don’t even think for a minute that you’ve been a bad mum! You’re doing the best you can and the rest is down to him. I used to think ‘where did I go wrong ?’ ..but its always been down to them and the choices they themselves make.
My son has been clean almost a month now…he got paid, we have his bank card. He’s attending daily meetings, going through the ‘ book’ with his fellowship and using meditation for his anxiety.
Thank you God and St Jude, I believe my prayers are being answered. I don’t get too complacent, I know every day is a battle for him, and the weekends are difficult. For the moment, im happy to take each day as it comes.
Thinking and praying for you all
Vent as much as you want, we’re all here for each other
Big hugs
Lxx