[cardiffbluebird]

Thanks for the reply, reading some of the stories on here gives some comfort that it doesn’t seem to be that unusual. Although she doesn’t drink the volume that it sounds like your wife does, the toxic mix of that with her anxiety tablets gives that effect.

Thanks for the advice and you’re right, I think i’m too focused on her drinking and it’s definitely making me resent her. I’m going to focus the next week on spending some good time with my kids and involve her if she’s sober and if she drinks then leave her to it. You forget to have time for yourself in this situation and to find a way to relax.