Hello everyone,
Well, my son disappeared for two weeks with no way to contact him. Then, he called about an hour ago, very drunk, sad and in a mess. He wanted to do a two hour walk to come to meet me so that I would give him money. I can’t transfer monies into his bank account as he has lost his bank card.
I had to refuse him coming to meet me at a friends house as he could turn up at 10pm, 2pm or not at all. He was crying down the phone that he will now need to sit and beg until he makes £25
He is so out of it he hasn’t quite grasped that the town is empty as everything is closed. I have been in touch with the people at the Simon centre that tell me they will find him a bed in a hostel for the night if he contacts them, but he clearly doesn’t want to do that.
My fear now is that he will turn up at his grans and harass her and then the police will be called. So, once again a stressful evening for my mother and I. It’s impossible to relax.
He doesn’t even seem concerned about where he will sleep. He only wants more money to become more hammered.
Thanks for letting me vent.
My son is invited for Christmas lunch at my mothers; even though he completely ruined it for everyone last year. If he turns up we will make it as pleasant as we possibly can for him.
I do hope everyone has some joy on Christmas Day, myself and my poor wee mum included and that our boys are lucid and pain free
Lindylou, pleased to hear your son is still doing ok. There is always hope it seems!
Ivy x