Hi LilGunner,
Welcome to the Forum.
I am the Mum of an addict, alcohol and cocaine, he is doing well at the moment, but it has been a very long and distressing road, the only way I can describe it is, it is like living in hell.
Cocaine is an evil drug and completely changes people, they lie, manipulate, do anything to get money, and hurt the people that help them the most.
They will only ever give up when they want to, no matter what anybody says to them.
I can’t tell you what to do, and wouldn’t dream of it, but if you read other stories on here you will see the devastation it brings to families, people in relationships.
It is an illness, and it’s very sad to see, but they are the ones who have to want to give up and seek help, you only hope one day that they do.
Take care of yourself first and think what you want to do. Keep in touch on here, lots of great advice from people in similar situations.
Dx