Hi ladies,
I hope you find this of help. I’ve been in a relationship for 5 years with my girlfriend. I had a severe gambling problem and managed to overcome it shortly after getting together. I however turned to cocaine about a year into the relationship and have averaged 2-5 grams a month (not a lot).
She doesn’t know about this and I continue to hide it from her. I never use my problem to belittle or devalue her and always treat her with respect. I’ve also held down a good job.
In my opinion from the way your partner has acted as you’ve detailed, I think it’s completely unacceptable and immature. I truly think if you was to end it (even if you have the attention to get back with him) it may make him wake up and realise he doesn’t want to lose you.