Hi Stevieb59,
Welcome to he Forum and to this thread, it’s a great place to be able to share your story and communicate with people that know exactly what you are going through, and hopefully give you a bit of hope.
I think you feel better, just being able to write it down, I know I do.
I understand where you are coming from when you say the pattern is the same and the responses.
It’s good that your Son is going to CA, at least he is doing something about it and hopefully has good support from the group.
Relapses are the worst thing, you think that it’s not going to happen again, but unfortunately it does, but if they keep trying then surely someday it will stop all together, I imagine this to be very hard work for them ????
Does your Son see his Son? My Son has a little daughter of 4, he sees her all the time and is a very good Daddy to her, which I’m thankful for.
Keep in touch on here, take some time for yourself and your wife, take care.
Dx