April 19, 2021 at 11:54 pm
#22706
jem
Participant
I’m really sorry to hear your boys are struggling and I know the frustration and disappointment so well. It’s really hard when they’ve decided to stop and you feel that things are getting better and then you find yourself back at square one. My son said that getting clean is a bit like building a damn and every time a hole appears you have to figure out how to patch it so that it’s stronger next time. I’ve cried my eyes out when my son has relapsed. I try to hang on to the fact that if they can stop for a few weeks or months then they can do it longer. We just have to figure out how to not go mad and financially broke while we wait for it to happen. Thinking and praying this comes right for all of us on here xxx