Hi Februarymarie
I have contacted to arrange counselling for myself – I am in the 5th year of this and it’s now taking it’s toll on me.
We had a ‘chat’ with my son at lunch time before he left for work. My husband called it; said he has to stop smoking and driving otherwise he’ll take his car off him. My husband said the police have only got to see you with a light out or something and pull you over. Weed is in your system for days and you smoke every day. He just stands there listening then gets defensive, then ‘arsey’ and walks off.
I said don’t you want to stop and live a normal life – then he shouts at me, never his Dad!!
He has now lost 2 house keys and we won’t give him another. I said maybe he’ll come back at a decent hour – no luck; went out yesterday at 1.30pm came back at 2.30am!
I just want him to pass his degree then I have leverage to say do something or leave.
Not what I want to do but I cannot live like this any longer xxx