Thanks jem and lindyloo long covid is up and down but mostly going in the right direction.
Still get very worn out and breathless.
Kate my son thinks I’m the worst ever but he did lose everything in a way he never even got a job dropped out of uni was on the streets at one point and then beaten up..hard but I do think getting to that low point has meant he has been clean for 3 mnths. So in answer to ypur question u certainly think that having g structure is good in one way but when his addiction makes him lose it that maybe the point he realises he has to stop?
Who knows but either way it is torture for us.