Thank you. I picked him up from work today as I wanted to speak to him. I basically offered him a way out a compromise I could pay this months rent in return I stay at his when he gets paid and for that night I take his phone. No way was he going to let me have that phone he got really obnoxious. Did a drug test when he got in he says he last did Coke last Saturday he was very clearly positive. I have taken his cat in because he says “it pisses on my bed and my clothes”. Did I get thanks no not at all. I think by his attitude I can conclude he is still very much taking drugs. I do need to back off. Oh he wants me to pay his rent but I see no gratitude just rudeness and ignorance. By the way I’m on my own my ex is useless basically doesn’t want to know x