Hi Kate we’ve done exactly the same. He owes us to the tune of a 6 figure sum. Our fault entirely for being so stupid to believe the promises and lies. Rent, MOT, grocery, prescriptions, credit cards, loans all with the promise he doesn’t want this life and will pay us back. We have had the odd repayment but that’s just to keep us sweet. We won’t see any of it so I’m contemplating reflecting this in our will. We get thanks when we hand over the money but there’s no remorse. We worry like mad and my husband has suffered so much with his mental health. He’s had counselling before but I’m trying to get him to have more. Hang on in there but like everyone else on here will tell you it’s thd hardest thing seeing your son become an addict and having to deal with it. Nobody knows until it happens to them. X
