Kate I’ve also blocked my son he rang to ask for money.
Its so hard
He is clean and i know he isnt using as he has to be clean to stay where he is living. The money is just him unable to budget and seeing g is as the people to constantly help him.
I told him that I am hurt by the way he only calls for money or help and kicks off for when we say no. He said he feels resentful to me for kicking him out. When u tried to explain that his behaviour caused us to make those decisions he wont accept it I have now blocked him again.
The stress has put so Much pressure on my marriage not that i can totally blame my son. This weekend I’ve felt pretty low. I think the adrenaline of the chaos of the last few yrs has kicked in..hes now off drugs and drunk but his personality remains quite nasty and that I am finding difficult ..I guess i hoped and dreamed off drugs it wld be nice calm and I’d have the perfect son ..how naive of me.
Weve come back from a weekend away early god knows if my marriage will survive!
Kate if u need to switch him off u have to to look after yourself.
I honestly feel now at the end of my tether.