Awful kate that you couldnt get an ambulance, i had that when i had covid.
i dont know what to suggest this really is miserable for you. I think and i know this is the hard bit is tough love.
he needs to see that his habit has consequences and all the while u bail him out he wont change.
That said my son is currently clean but still thinks its none of his fault and everyone elses and constantly asking for money has no job.
I really did produce a lazy idiot sadly.
can u get some counselling through local drug services? i had some which helped for me to offload and i also call drugfam too.
Just offloading to a sympathetic ear can help a little bit.
thinking of you.