Kate I really feel for you, but even my son says that they can’t be helped while they are busy ‘burning the house down.’ I’ve had to walk away when he has been in that mindset. It’s easier when they live in another city, very hard if they are close to where you live. At the moment my son is using but I control the cash so it’s limited. Not ideal but he’s waiting for treatment.
68862 – I really hope your son turns a corner, you and your husband have really been through it.